Saturday, September 27, 2014

FOMA or the fear of missing out :(

Last year our girls started a tradition of taking a road trip together.  Last year's trip was to Florida. This year they chose a destination where they would have great lodging at a reasonable cost (free).  Their Grandfather's house in Maryland.  They were to leave on Thursday the 25th of September and stay through Tuesday the 30th, returning on Wednesday October 1st.
  
I must confess that I was having a serious case of FOMA.  For those of you in my generation FOMA is the Fear Of Missing Out.  It is a new phobia that is rampant in the techno generation.  I must admit that I find myself often feeling the effects.

Jane and I are leaving South Carolina on Tuesday after her followup for the second kidney stone crushing last Tuesday and heading for a Sower project in PA.  We will arrive in Maryland after the kids have left so I would miss out on seeing all of the Grandchildren.  Hence the FOMA.  

I found out that they were all planning to rendezvous at Julie's in Wake Forest NC and launch on their journey on Friday the 26th .  Rachel found a cheap flight from Punta Gorda (where is that?) Florida to Greenville SC.  Rebecca picked her up on the way to Wake Forest NC.  

So Jane and I hopped in the car on Thursday and headed to Wake Forest to surprise them.  What's a five hour trip when Grands are at the destination!  We told Maribeth so we could take Olivia with us to give her some freedom to stop and take care of Wren.
  We were able to stop at South of the Border and let Olivia play on the ancient animal statues.  We haven't stopped there since the kids were young.  The same animals are there, some missing feet and tusks.  Olivia had a great time seeing them but she didn't want to get on any of them.  Guess she could tell they were pretty worn out from years of abuse :)

We were able to pull off the surprise to Julie, Becky, and Rachel.










































We had a great time with the kids
All aboard the chair train!
We had a great time in the pool at the Sleep Inn. 


Ella Mae and Olivia slept in our room.  We enjoyed watching Mickey's playhouse.
The van was repacked with Julie and Mari's stuff
Micah, Olivia, and Wren in Mari's Van
Ella, Isa, and Bowen in Becky's truck
Giga Jane and her Girls
Jane and I headed back to Charleston and the girls headed out for Maryland
Quiet time

All arrived safely at Pop Pop's house.  
Jason flew up (he's the smart one)
Stroller Parade

I am so grateful that our children are adventurous and love to be together.  

God has truly blessed us real good!

As of this writing they are having fun in Maryland.  Blessing their Ninety one year old Grandfather and giving their Aunt Amy more grey hair.

Jane weathered the second kidney stone blast well and baring a bad report from the followup Xray next tuesday, we plan to leave on time to arrive at our October project at Summit Grove in New Freedom PA on Friday the 3rd of October.

Godspeed till next post,  
                                            Glenn and Jane




Tuesday, September 23, 2014

CIT Project at Union Mills NC

Three weeks passed very quickly at the Center for Intercultural Training (CIT) at Union Mills NC.  The project was very rewarding as we were able to serve the staff there in multiple ways.  Our partners this time were Bobbeth and John Hawkins from Rome Ga.  They have been Sowers for over twenty years and are heading toward their 100th project soon.
CIT trains folks that are headed to the foreign field to serve in many capacities.  The training is aimed at enabling them to be successful long term.  The staff were wonderful to work with.  

Jane and Bobbeth spent the first two weeks cleaning the main dormitory which has two wings with two floors each.  Each floor has a three bedroom apartment and a number of single bedrooms.  They have a large living room with kitchen facilities and a communal bathroom with showers.

The third week the fall session began with folks arriving from around the country.  There were 28 adult participants in this session, most with families.  There is an apartment building with ten apartments as well as a house that has three apartments in it.  The kids sure enjoyed the pool.

There are programs for all ages that also provide training specific to their age group.  This group of middle and high school students met under the tree in the afternoons.  Their classroom had been recently remodeled and John helped get it setup for the incoming teens.

These preschoolers had great fun and the teacher has a curriculum specific to their needs as they travel to new surroundings.
This is Gloria the lady that handles all of the housekeeping at CIT.  She is assisted by her daughters when they are out of school.  Bobbeth and Jane were lifesavers to her with the cleaning chores.
On the left is Art who is in charge of Facilities Maintenance.  His brother Ron on the right recently retired and moved here to volunteer his expertise to the ministry.  Both of these guys were a blast to work with. We had lots of laughs and Laurel and Hardy episodes. Their dad was a painting contractor in Bakersfield CA and they taught us lots of painting tricks.  Art gave up his painting business and has served at several ministries doing various maintenance tasks.  Needless to say they are experienced craftsmen and I learned alot working with them, and from John as well.
The first two weeks we painted two apartments and the living room of a third.  We fixed some kitchen sink drains helped with some grass cutting just before the families started arriving for the session.
The third week we cleaned out some spaces in one of the maintenance shops and constructed walls to partition off the spaces.
The ladies moved to the cafeteria kitchen for the third week of our stay.  They helped prepare meals for the participants and staff.  We were privileged to join them for lunch and were able to meet some of the families and learn about their calling and how we might pray for them.
The community center just across the street hosts a free Blue Grass concert every Friday night.  Dinner is available for five dollars and then two groups perform from seven until.  The old school building provides a great venue for a concert.

We were able to go to Rome to visit Rebecca, Corey and the girls on our second weekend.  We had a great time with them at the park in town and were able to babysit Saturday night as Corey took Becky out for a night on the town.
We are back in Summerville for the next week.  We report to Summit Grove Camp in south central Pennsylvania on October 6th.  
While we are waiting to leave Jane will be undergoing shock wave treatment on her right kidney.  She has four stones that were up in the kidney that we thought would be ok to wait till November to take care of.  A followup Xray taken when we got home last Thursday showed that the largest M&M sized one has move to the exit of the kidney and needs to be taken care of now.

Our time at CIT was a blessed one for us.  We look forward to the opportunity to go back and serve at this special place.  Pray for us as Jane recovers from the second procedure that we will be able to get to the next project on time.

Blessings till next post...   Godspeed,  Glenn and Jane






Sunday, August 31, 2014

Center for Intercultural Training

On the road again!

After another bout with kidney stones, Jane this time, we are back on the road.  This time we are serving on a Sower project at the Center for Intercultural Training located in Union Mills, North Carolina, just south and east of Ashville.  We arrived on Sunday afternoon.  We were supposed to be here on Thursday but were delayed by those wretched stones.  Jane has had several painful episodes over the last couple of months, another one just before we went to East Tennessee to clean chalets at Fairhaven ministries two weeks ago.  

She made an appointment with our Urologist for when we returned home (pretty sad when you have a family Urologist).  While at Fairhaven she had another episode but thankfully it passed after several hours of pain.  We went to the doctor last Monday and the Xray showed four large stones on the right side up in the kidney and a small one on the left side in the tube that leads down to the bladder.  The intense pain episodes she was experiencing were on the left side.  He recommended shock waving the small left side stone now, and dealing with the larger ones when we have a break in November.

He had an opening on Tuesday night so she signed up and showed up for a nice sleep and hopefully a successful stone crushing.  Well, after coming out of anesthesia she had the severe stone pain back.  Our plan to leave on Thursday was put on hold and on Friday she passed some of the stone fragments and the pain as well, Praise the Lord!
So, we hooked up the wagon on Saturday and hit the road on Sunday.

We will be here at Union Mills for the next three weeks.  The Center for Intercultural Training (CIT) is a partnership of missional agencies, churches and organizations dedicated to training and equipping cross-cultural workers and their families for cross-cultural ministry.  Participants attend courses at CITʼs 28 acre campus located near the mountains of western North Carolina. The quiet campus provides the ideal environment to build cross-cultural awareness and skills in a community-based learning environment.

We are parked on the tennis court along with Bobbeth and John Hawkins, long time Sowers that hail from Rome Georgia where Rebecca and Corey live.  They just finished the August project at The Billy Graham Training Center in Ashville.  We served with them at Lake Placid Conference Center in Florida in February.

The tennis court just happens to be right next to the swimming pool.

Just across the street is an old school building that has been converted to an performing arts venue.  

Jane and I attended a blue grass festival here in May when we were at the Billy Graham Center in Ashville.  We parked in the CIT parking lot and wondered what they did here.  I did some research online and found out about their ministry.  Later I was looking at the Sowergram which lists the projects available and saw that it was a Sower project.  So we signed up for September.
Looks like we won't have to go far for the friday nite concert!
Now that's a great flag!
Supper for 5 bucks, free blue grass concert, and in walking distance to our rig.  My missionary care buddy, Barney Davis, always hoped for a beach ministry.  I think I have found my "beach ministry" 
Bluegrass, food, and service for our Lord!  What a combination.

On arrival we met with Art, one of the maintenance guys.  It looks like they have plenty of tasks for us to accomplish during our service here.  The next session of training starts on September 14th.  They had a crew here on saturday hanging drywall and doing some first coat painting on some of the apartments.  

Our first sower partners, Doris and Frank Hutchison, emphasized to us that the first letter in Sower stands for servants.  We are blessed with the opportunity to come along side of this ministry and help them in some small way to enable them to enable God's servants who are called of Him to serve cross-culturally.

Your prayers for John, Bobbeth, Jane and I are greatly appreciated.  Specific prayers for safety as we work would be great.  Also pray for opportunities for us to be a blessing to the staff here at CIT.

We will return to Summerville on September 18th.  We have a two week break before our next project.  We will be at Summit Grove Camp and Conference Center in New Freedom PA in October.  That is near York PA, which will be a short commute to visit Jane's dad in Annapolis.

Blessings till next post!   Godspeed,  Glenn and Jane



Tuesday, August 5, 2014

The Homestead

Jane's Dad, who turned ninety-one this year, moved to the Annapolis area from Calvert County, Maryland when he was a small child .  I am always interested in family history and as I have talked with him over the years about their family's history, he has mentioned several things that have left me curious.  One example occurred when Jane and I moved into the farmhouse on Riva Road, the house he grew up in and still owns today.

I found several small wooden barrels in the shed, about 2 gallons in size. He told me that they had nails in them originally.  He related that his father was the proprietor of a store when they lived in Calvert County and that he had sold bulk items like nails, flour and other staples.  I imagined a store in the town of Prince Frederick, but he said no, that it was on the farm.  The family, which included five children, moved up to Annapolis in 1929 which would have been at the beginning of the depression.

This past Sunday, we asked him if he remembered where the old farm was located.  He said yes, so we took a ride to Calvert County to check it out.  He told me "you turn at the hospital in Prince Frederick".  I'm thinking that the farm was similar to the Riva Road farm, in that it was located on the edge of town in 1929 but had been overtaken by the urban sprawl.  So I expected him to show us a location that was now a shopping center or housing development or such.

When we arrived in Prince Frederick we came to the hospital which is located directly on MD 2, the main thoroughfare that goes through town.  As promised, he said "make a right here".  We made the turn but instead of leading to urban sprawl, the road quickly turned rural, with remnants of old tobacco barns and lovely fields of lush tall corn and soybeans just beginning to pop up over the stubble of winter wheat straw.  

We traveled down the road and came upon a long hill that ran down to a small creek that passed under the roadway.  He shared how some men he knew as a child were caught at this spot by revenuers, bringing moonshine back from Solomon's Island.  He chuckled as he told the story.  I was amazed at the detail he remembered since he was only five years old when they moved up to Annapolis.

We continued along and presently he recognized a road to the right and we made the turn.  After a few miles he said that we might have taken the wrong road but we had just passed a sign that said "no outlet".  I figured we would soon run out of road so we continued on.  At the end of the hard road, we came upon a long dirt driveway and he recognized it as the lane leading to the farm.

Sure enough, we approached a grand two story farm house, and suddenly, he was back home.  
"Lets get out, there's sure to be somebody around we can talk to" he said.  I could see Jane in the rear view mirror rolling her eyes, thinking we might get shot.  He was the first one out and I went up to the door and knocked.  He took off toward the rear of the house.  A young man in his latter twenties came out and I introduced myself and said that my Father in law grew up here as a child and asked if it would be ok to look around.  He said sure and we talked a bit.  His family moved there in the fifties.  I asked if he ever got up Annapolis way and he said he did.  I told him that Pop had a Southern States store there and he informed me that his father delivered mulch to the store.  What a small world.

Well, needless to say, my assessment of the setting of the farm was entirely off course.  The farm is located on a high bluff overlooking the Patuxent river.  I would guess that it is about eighty feet above the river right behind the house. As the property continues to your right along the river, it slopes down to water level as it approaches a point of land that is the entrance to Hunting Creek which borders one side of the property.
  
Off of the right side of the house is where the store building was located, which has since been removed.  Pop said that boats would come to the farm to pick up "Hogs Heads" or large barrels, containing tobacco that was grown by his Father and the other local farmers for shipment to Baltimore for auction.

The Patuxent River is quite wide at this point, I would say about a mile or so.  The house sits on a great vista overlooking the river.  He said that the steep bank has eroded significantly since he was a child.  I would say it was about a hundred feet from the back of the house to the edge of the bluff.

There is a marshy point at the entrance to Hunting Creek and the shoreline continues along the property.  He recalled that his mother would tie a rope around her waist and hitch it to their row boat.  She would take a dip net and walk the shoreline catching crabs.

This google maps screen shot is the best I could come up with to show the location of the farm which is at the end of Mallard Point Road.
Hunting Creek is on the Patuxent River on the right side of this picture The farm property is the point of land that protrudes near the center-right of the picture.  There is a power plant on the lower left of the picture directly across from the farm.
The house is in the trees at the end of Mallard Point Rd on the left.  The drive continues down to an adjacent farm at the bottom of the picture.  You can see the marshy point at the top of the picture.  Pop said that their parcel was around fifty acres, probably most all of the land that is shown here.
The house is hidden by the trees in the center of the picture and the store building was about where the shed is at the end of the driveway.
Quite a stately home for it's day!



Pop said that the wrap around porch was not on the house back then.
The back of the house faces the river

As you can see, the Patuxent River is very wide at this point.
Reminiscing old times!



They moved to Annapolis in 1929.  Pop Pop, as Jane and the other grandchildren called Pop's Father, bought a new Chevrolet flat bed truck from Roscoe Hall, a cousin who had the Chevy dealership in Harwood at the time.  Pop Pop used that truck to move all of their belongings and farm equipment.  I asked Janes' dad if they had a tractor and he said no, they used horses to till the fields.  They did have a car, an Overland with flower pots on the door posts between the windows.  Not sure what vintage that was, but he is sure it would be worth a bundle today!  They had that car until 1938 when Pop Pop bought the black Chevrolet sedan that Pop still has.  Pop Pop paid $715 for it.  Roscoe Hall had stopped by the farm and said the price was going up on Monday so he went right down to Harwood and bought it.

The next stop on our venture was at the school house he attended for first grade.  He, along with his siblings walked several miles to this school and Jane and I can vouch for the distance.
He said that they had to bring in wood before school started
Sometime along the way it was converted to a home that is still lived in.  Doesn't appear to have had too many modifications since Pop's school days!

Our next stop was at the cemetery that Pop's mother and father are buried in.  It is located at the former site of the the Asbury Methodist Church, on MD 231 just past the Barstow post office on the left heading south.
The cemetery has many Bowen's and Hall's buried there.  Hall was Pop's Mother's maiden name.


This is the grave site of Pop's Mother, Eliza Delila, and his Father, Joseph Dell.
She was also the Mother of Uncle Vernon and Uncle Lester.
His first wife, Ada is buried here also.  She was Uncle Mobray and Aunt Madeline's Mother
Pop's brother Vernon and wife Theresa are buried nearby.

Well that brought to a close a great day of reminiscing about Pop's boyhood.

If you want more information on the family line contact Carolyn Thurber, Uncle Mobray's daughter, 
who has done extensive geneological study on our family  cbthurber@verizon.net

Blessings till next post!   Godspeed,  Glenn and Jane